Bobby Flay's Transformation Is Seriously Turning Heads
It is not an overstatement to say that Bobby Flay has built a culinary empire, one that has made him a household name, television fixture, and a multi-millionaire. Over the course of three decades, he has opened numerous restaurants, hosted countless cooking shows, and penned multiple cookbooks, all of which have earned him both critical and commercial success. Not bad for someone who dropped out of high school (via Biography).
However, it hasn't all been smooth sailing for the New York City native. His successful life has also been packed full of controversies, lawsuits, restaurant closings, personality clashes, and divorces. And yet through it all, Flay remains at the top of the culinary world.
So how did Bobby Flay go from being the proud owner of an Easy Bake Oven to winning multiple James Beard Awards and getting a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame? Let's take a look back to see how Bobby Flay's transformation has been turning heads.
Bobby Flay showed interest in cooking at a young age
It seems Bobby Flay was always destined to become a chef, even before he realized it himself. When he was just 8 years old, Insider reports, Flay asked his parents for an Easy-Bake Oven for Christmas and they delivered. "I couldn't believe that you could bake a cake with a light bulb and I had to see it for myself," Flay later told TODAY.
Although he did become a world-famous chef, Flay did not ultimately follow a similar path to become a baker. Yet, Flay still clearly sees the importance of such a gift and thinks it should be made available to all kids without any stigma attached. In 2012, along with a host of other famous chefs, he came out to publicly support a teenager's online petition for Hasbro to make the Easy-Bake Oven gender-neutral (via CBS News). This proposed change would include meaningful marketing moves like putting boys on the box and making the toy in other colors besides pink and purple.
Bobby Flay's culinary career began at age 17
Most people are likely unaware that Bobby Flay is a high school dropout, but it's true that he never officially finished school. After flunking out of several New York City schools, the future chef said goodbye to formal education at the ripe old age of 17.
After dropping out, Flay's father forced him to get a job, so he began busing tables at the famous Manhattan restaurant Joe Allen. The elder Flay had hoped the unglamorous gig would make his son want to return to school. It had the opposite effect. Flay quickly moved from busboy to kitchen helper to full-time chef, falling in love with all things cooking. "I was creating things. And I could actually do it. I didn't have to open a book," Flay recalled in an interview with CBS Sunday Morning. "I remember waking up in the morning, laying in my bed, staring at the ceiling and saying to myself, 'I can't wait to go to work today,'"
Two years later, Flay chose to further his culinary skills by attending The French Culinary Institute. He had shown so much talent in the kitchen that his boss, Joe Allen himself, paid his tuition. Flay graduated in 1984 and has never looked back (via International Culinary Center).
Bobby Flay developed his signature Southwestern cooking style early in his career.
Bobby Flay may have honed his skills at culinary school, but it took real-life experience for him to develop what would prove to be his signature style.
Following his graduation from The French Culinary Institute, Food Network reports, Flay went to work for chef and restaurateur Jonathan Waxman at two of his establishments, Buds and Jams. Getting the job was simply a matter of networking. "I was at a cocktail party at the French Culinary Institute. This woman Gail Arnold met me — she was the chef at Buds and I said, 'I would love to work there.' And she said 'OK,'" Flay told the Wall Street Journal. "It's easier than you think it is to get a job. I said to her, 'I will promise you this, I will give you 120 percent. Just tell me what to do.'"
It was under Waxman's tutelage that Flay became enamored of his mentor's use and mastery of American Southwestern flavors. As per Biography, Flay was unfamiliar with the cuisine prior to that but was quickly transfixed. As he said to the Wall Street Journal, "That was the first time I had seen Southwestern ingredients, like blue cornmeal and chile peppers. I fell in love with the flavors, the colors, the textures."
As it turns out, Flay's encounter with Southwestern flavors would be pretty fateful. It wouldn't be long before Flay was overseeing his own Southwestern restaurant at a tender age.
Bobby Flay's first restaurant earned critical acclaim
In 1991, Bobby Flay ventured out on his own to open his first restaurant (via Biography). Showcasing Flay's mastery of Southwestern flavors, the debut of Mesa Grill proved to be the launching point for the chef's meteoric rise. Just a year after opening its doors, New York magazine awarded the Manhattan eatery the Best Restaurant title. One year later, in 1993, Flay was named the prestigious James Beard Foundation's Rising Star Chef of the Year (via Bobby Flay).
Flay's success with Mesa Grill afforded him the opportunity to quickly open a second restaurant. Bolo, located in Manhattan's Flatiron district, debuted in 1993. It highlighted Spanish cuisine while using ingredients familiar to American diners. Like Mesa Grill, Bolo proved to be a popular and successful restaurant, even receiving a difficult-to-nab complimentary review from The New York Times.
While both Mesa Grill and Bolo have closed – the former in 2013, the latter in 2008 — they allowed Flay to showcase his skills and put him on the culinary map.
Bobby Flay expanded his culinary empire during the 2000s by opening six restaurants
Bobby Flay's culinary empire really started to take hold once the calendar flipped to the new century. In 2004, he opened a second Mesa Grill location, this one is located in the Caesars Palace hotel in Las Vegas. Just three years later, he debuted a third Mesa Grill in the Bahamas (via Bobby Flay). In between, Flay kept busy by trying his hand at a new restaurant concept. Bar Americain opened in New York in 2005, serving American classics in a bistro-style setting.
The year 2008 saw Flay close the doors to Bolo in New York City. However, it also saw him begin what would prove to be a very successful new restaurant chain when he first Bobby's Burger Palace was opened on Long Island, according to Eater. According to its website, the restaurant offers "Signature burgers. Fries with outstanding sauces and toppings. Spoon-bending milkshakes. Refreshing drinks. All created from original Bobby Flay recipes." Before the end of the year, Flay had already opened a second location. According to Bobby's Burger Palace, there are currently 10 of Flay's burger joints scattered throughout the United States.
Bobby Flay has been a mainstay on Food Network for nearly 30 years
If you've turned on the Food Network more than once over the past 25-plus years, it's likely you've seen Bobby Flay's face staring back at you. Flay first appeared on the channel in 1994, as Food Network itself reports. Since then, he has hosted so many shows on the network that it's difficult to keep count. His first, Grillin' & Chillin', debuted in 1996. Some of the highlights after that include Boy Meets Grill and Bobby Flay's Barbecue Addiction, both of which won Flay Daytime Emmy Awards.
He is also no stranger to competition shows. He hosted Throwdown! With Bobby Flay, which pits him against an expert chef in a specific cuisine. More recently, he's appeared as the title star in Beat Bobby Flay, where two up-and-coming chefs compete for the chance to cook against Flay to determine a winner. As many contestants have learned, it's pretty darn hard to beat Flay at his own game.
Flay has also appeared on Food Network's Iron Chef America, which he's since quit, and Worst Cooks in America, just to name a few. While his skills in the kitchen made him a name to know within the culinary world, it's easy to say his dominance over the airwaves has made him a household name.
Bobby Flay has been married and divorced three times
While Bobby Flay's professional life has seen plenty of success, his personal life hasn't always enjoyed such smooth sailing. Most notably, his personal relationships have been a regular source of Bobby Flay controversy.
According to Insider, the chef has been married three times and divorced three times. Flay first got hitched to Debra Ponzak, a fellow chef, in 1991. He was 26 at the time and the marriage lasted just two years. Flay tried his luck in love again in 1995, this time to Kate Connelly. The two met when Flay appeared on Connelly's Food Network show, Robin Leach Talking Food. The marriage lasted slightly longer than Flay's previous one, for a total of three years. Although short, this relationship did produce Flay's only child, a daughter named Sophie (via Delish).
Flay's most recent, and most noteworthy, marriage was to actress Stephanie March. The two began dating in 2000 and in the winter of 2003, Flay proposed to March while ice-skating at Rockefeller Center. The pair were married for 10 years before going their separate ways in 2015. But that's not where the story ends. As per Page Six, Flay had reportedly been having an affair with his assistant for years prior to the split with March. Attempts at reconciliation between Flay and March failed and the chef finally filed for divorce in 2015.
Bobby Flay was the first chef to get a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame
If Bobby Flay's star status was still in doubt by 2015, he was awarded the opportunity to truly cement it — pun intended. That year, People reports, the chef was honored with his own star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. In doing so, Flay became the first chef to have his name engraved into the sidewalk of Hollywood Boulevard. "I just want to make sure that everybody understands –- because I know there's been a little confusion –- I am not getting this star for my cameos in 'Entourage,'" Flay said at the event. "I know there's a little debate about that, but honestly, to be the first chef to get a star is really, truly an amazing milestone."
Flay was joined at the ceremony by his mother and daughter, which likely only made the day's sideshow rather uncomfortable. The Hollywood Walk of Fame event was Flay's first public appearance since filing for divorce from his third wife, Stephanie March, a separation that reportedly came after the chef had cheated on his spouse for years. Even more embarrassing was the fact that someone had hired a plane to fly a banner with the all-caps word "CHEATER" emblazoned on it overhead during the ceremony.
Bobby Flay has been no stranger to controversy
It is not uncommon for those who have spent as much time in the public eye as Bobby Flay has to have a public slip up or two, but the chef has had more than his fair share of controversies. After filing for divorce from March, Flay also reportedly canceled his ex's credit cards without warning.
But there have been more issues with Flay than his messy personal life. In 2009, the Daily News reported that employees at Flay's restaurant had sued the celebrity chef for what they claimed were violations of employment law. In the lawsuit, employees from Mesa Grill, Bolo, and Bar Americain stated management withheld tips, forced them to work unpaid overtime hours, and failed to reimburse them for expenses. Flay and his business partners settled the suit by agreeing to pay the employees a combined $800,000.
There have also been stories of bad behavior at his home away from home, the Food Network. Once, while competing on Iron Chef Japan, Flay jumped on the counter and cutting board in celebration, much to the chagrin of his opponent, chef Masaharu Morimoto, who subsequently said that such behavior meant that Flay wasn't a true chef. "He stood on the cutting board," Morimoto said. "In Japan, the cutting board is sacred to us." To add insult to injury, Flay didn't even win the competition.
Bobby Flay has written more than a dozen cookbooks
We're not sure you're allowed to be Food Network and not have at least several published cookbooks to your name. If that's actually a true requirement for these TV chefs, then Bobby Flay has certainly fulfilled his responsibility. The famous chef has added to his culinary empire by writing more than a dozen cookbooks (via The Kitchn).
It all started in 1994 with the release of Bobby Flay's Bold American Flavors. Later that decade, he published two more cookbooks in consecutive years, Bobby Flay's From My Kitchen to Your Table in 1998 and Boy Meets Grill in 1999. It was this last book and the type of cooking it promoted that would be the inspiration for Flay's next Food Network show, which bore the same name.
Boy Meets Grill would be the first of many grilling-themed cookbooks for Flay. As per Goodreads, he has also penned Boy Gets Grill, Grilling for Life, Grill It!, and Barbecue Addiction. Flay has also penned two books based on his restaurants, Bobby Flay's Bar Americain Cookbook and Bobby Flay's Mesa Grill Cookbook, as well another about one of his popular Food Network shows, Bobby Flay's Throwdown! The chef's most recent publication was 2019's Bobby at Home: Fearless Flavors from My Kitchen.
Bobby Flay's personality has ruffled plenty of feathers
Flay seems to have made about as many enemies as friends over the course of his career. "Beat Bobby Flay sounds promising until you realize it's about cooking," said fellow TV chef Anthony Bourdain (via Delaware Online). Even a relative ally like Giada De Laurentiis hasn't always been so friendly. "I thought, 'you're a jerk'," she said about her encounter with Flay on Iron Chef (via People). "'I never want to be around you again.'"
These are just a few of the not-so-complimentary things some fellow famous chefs have said about Bobby Flay. It seems that more than a few people have found Flay's personality to be an off-putting combination of rude, arrogant, and egocentric.
It's not just famous faces that have had issues with the chef. There have been accusations of him treating his employees poorly and even Flay himself admitted that Food Network hasn't always been happy about his antics, People reports. And while the internet may not always be the most trusted source, there are plenty of opinions on places like Quora to suggest that many in the general public do not find him overly charming.
As fellow Food Network star Giada De Laurentiis told People, "I think that Bobby is one of those people that if you are his friend, he has your back forever and he will stand up for you." The emphasis should perhaps be on the "if."
Bobby Flay is the doting father of a successful daughter
It's clear that Bobby Flay has been no stranger to failed marriages. As per Insider, he has been married and divorced three times in less than 25 years. But, the number of times he's headed to the altar does not mean those relationships weren't fruitful. In fact, his second marriage to Kate Connelly gave him his only child, Sophie Flay, who was born in 1996.
Over the years, the youngest Flay has popped up on a few of her father's shows, including Brunch at Bobby's and as a judge on Beat Bobby Flay, according to IMDb. In addition, she's been at her dad's side during an appearance on The Rachel Ray Show.
While Sophie did not develop her father's devotion to the kitchen, she did inherit his affinity for the camera. After graduating from the communications school at the University of Southern California, Sophie landed a job as a community news reporter with ABC7 Los Angeles, where she can often be seen on camera reporting on local events. "I have an ongoing flow of pride watching Sophie do so well in her career," the older Flay told People. "She has this great work ethic. I'm watching her just rise to the challenges of being in her own career [...] I'm like, 'That's amazing. This is my kid.'"